A Husband’s Awesome Assignment

download (1)We men are extremely task-oriented.  We love to accomplish, conquer, and fix things. Over the years, I have jumped too quick to take care of my wife’s needs and find out that the task would have been simpler if I’d just waited a moment, listen to her further, or best of all, prayed about it.   But, I was the man on the job!

When it comes to tasks, projects, and accomplishments, husbands, do know about the assignment God has given you in Ephesians 5:25-28?

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. 28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself.

This passage is a beautiful word picture of the relationship between Christ, the Bridegroom, and His Church, the Bride. Because Christ is the Savior of the Body (Ephesians 5:23) and gave Himself up for the Church (5:25), He will present her to Himself in awesome, holy splendor as a bride adorned for her husband (Revelation 21:2).

Since this word picture uses marriage as its example, I believe there is something very telling in this passage for husbands.  Christ has given Himself for us, sanctified us, and will present us to Himself.  Husbands, in the word picture, are you discipling your wife in such a way that you could present her to the Lord as a woman of God because you intentionally invested in her spiritual growth?  Could you look at Christ and say, “I’ve done my best to help my wife know You, love You, serve You, and walk with You.”?

How can that happen?  Here’s some suggestions:

  • Pray with her every day; before you go to work, during the day from work, at meal times and when you go to bed. Hold hands and meet at the greatest place in the universe—the Throne of Grace (Hebrews 4:14-16).
  • Make sure she has time to study God’s Word. If you have young children and her time is maxed taking care of them, when you come home from work, spend time with the kids and give your wife the opportunity to get along with God.
  • Put your wife in spiritual growth opportunities such as sending her to the Ladies Retreat @ the Wilds, and/or making sure she participates in a Ladies Bible Study at church, and be faithful to attend your local church.
  • Pray specifically for her to grow in the grace and knowledge of Jesus Christ (2 Peter 3:18).
  • Share with each other every day what you have learned from your time in the Word and prayer.
  • Share how you have seen God at work in your lives.
  • Read a book together on a date, before you go to bed, after supper, etc.  (i.e. Marriage, Christian growth)
  • Rejoice with her with she sees answers to prayer, and weep with her when her heart is burdened (Romans 12:15).

Men, we have an awesome responsibility to come alongside our wives and grow together in Christ!  The eternal things are of far more value than the temporal, earthly things. You take the lead; you encourage; you disciple. Be ready “to present” her to the Lord!

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