How To Be a Godly Church Member

As I said last week, I have literally grown up in church. Let me be quick to say that the blessings of being a born-again member of Christ’s church far outweigh the negatives.  Having said that, I have seen, not only my own sinful, selfish heart, but have seen deceptive hearts on display in the lives of others that in some cases would make a sailor blush!  Personally, I believe too often a carnal Christian is worse to deal with than an unbeliever (Galatians 5:15-21).  To recount what I have seen in my lifetime is not necessary here, so let’s turn our focus to how can we can be godly church members.

Quite frankly, the answer is simple and found in Colossians 1:18, And he (Christ) is the head of the body, the church: who is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead; that in all things he might have the preeminence.  When you view everything that happens in the local church through the lens of Christ, it puts everything in the right perspective.  He is to always have first place.  The Christ in us (Colossians 1:27) sings; the Christ in us worships; the Christ in us shakes hands; the Christ is us responds to that offense; the Christ in us prays;  the Christ in us teaches that Sunday School class; the Christ in us looks for the lost and shares the gospel;  the Christ in us allows others to exercise their liberty as believer priests; the Christ in us does not leave the church over preferences; the Christ in us is patient and kind to others; the Christ in us speaks to one another; the Christ in us is firm when necessary;  the Christ in us serves one another.

If it were not for the Lord Jesus Christ, the local church would not exist.  We would be lost in our sinful condition and estranged from God forever.  So, may Christ be first in your local church by you submitting to His Lordship, coming to know Christ each day through His Word, and making sure that the world and the person next to you in the pew sees Christ and not you.  Paul wraps it up in his words to the church at Corinth, But I fear, lest by any means, as the serpent beguiled Eve through his subtilty, so your minds should be corrupted from the simplicity that is in Christ (2 Corinthians 11:3).  Looking forward to seeing Christ this Sunday in the pew, nursery, sound room, foyer, Sunday School class, auditorium, choir, parking lot, office, gym, etc. May the following chorus ring true in the Church today!

Show us Christ, show us Christ,

O God, reveal Your glory

Through the preaching of Your Word

Until every heart confesses Christ is Lord.

One Another’s That Should Not Be in the Local Church

As you read Ephesians 4 yesterday, you were reminded of how the gospel changes us as we are joined together in Christ.  Our position in Christ has many practical out-workings in our lives, one of which is the fact that we are members one of another (Ephesians 4:25).   Please read the following link and take your time to absorb all the writer is saying about what should not found in the local church.

One Anothers I Cant Find In the New Testament

Christ On Display

It is maligned, misunderstood, taken for granted, scorned, abused, laughed at, numbed down, gossiped and lied about, considered old-fashioned and not necessary, and under constant attack.  Of course, I am speaking of the Church.  All born-again, regenerated believers from the day of Pentecost (Acts 2) to the rapture (1 Thessalonians 4:13-18) make up the universal church.  Jesus Christ promised . . . upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it (Matthew 16:18).  When a sinner receives Christ as Savior, the Holy Spirit places him into the “Body of Christ” which is this universal church (1 Corinthians 12:12-14,27). This function of the Holy Spirit began at the day of Pentecost (Acts 1:5; 2:1-4; 11:15-18).

A local church is a group of believers in this church age that meets on a regular basis and is biblically organized to continue the work of Christ here on earth (Acts 1:1-14). The central purpose of a local church is discipleship (Matthew 28:18-20) and to bear the image of the gospel for God’s glory.  The church is not an organization but an organism.  It is alive, infused by the Spirit of God, to accomplish the work of God to make a difference for Christ.  The church is the vehicle God is using today to fulfill His redemptive purposes in the world.  The church is Christ on display to the world.

Therefore, as believers, we must not take lightly the ministry of the local church nor our participation in the church.  We are a part of the most glorious movement in the world, and we have a grand responsibility that accompanies this privilege. What is your attitude toward the church?  Are you an active participant in the church?  Do you pray much for your local church?  Do you faithfully serve in your local church?  Can your local church count on you?  Can Christ count on you?  Do you see the local church through your eyes or the lens of Scripture? Have you found a perfect local church?  Do you grumble about your church?  Since Christ has saved your soul, restored your relationship with God the Father, baptized you with the Holy Spirit, and placed you in His Church, are you a reflection of Christ in your local church through the good times and the hard times?

My friend, this week, I want to challenge our hearts about how we view the church; what we say about the church; how to be a godly church member, etc.

May I encourage you today to read Ephesians 4:1-32, and ask yourself, “Am I an Ephesians 4 church member?  Can the world see Christ on display by how I function in His church?”

Memorial Day Tribute

Ronald Reagan’s 1986 Memorial Day Speech (Arlington National Cemetary)

Today is the day we put aside to remember fallen heroes and to pray that no heroes will ever have to die for us again. It’s a day of thanks for the valor of others, a day to remember the splendor of America and those of her children who rest in this cemetery and others. It’s a day to be with the family and remember.

I was thinking this morning that across the country children and their parents will be going to the town parade and the young ones will sit on the sidewalks and wave their flags as the band goes by. Later, maybe, they’ll have a cookout or a day at the beach. And that’s good, because today is a day to be with the family and to remember.

Arlington, this place of so many memories, is a fitting place for some remembering. So many wonderful men and women rest here, men and women who led colorful, vivid, and passionate lives. There are the greats of the military: Bull Halsey and the Admirals Leahy, father and son; Black Jack Pershing; and the GI’s general, Omar Bradley. Great men all, military men. But there are others here known for other things.

Here in Arlington rests a sharecropper’s son who became a hero to a lonely people. Joe Louis came from nowhere, but he knew how to fight. And he galvanized a nation in the days after Pearl Harbor when he put on the uniform of his country and said, “I know we’ll win because we’re on God’s side.” Audie Murphy is here, Audie Murphy of the wild, wild courage. For what else would you call it when a man bounds to the top of a disabled tank, stops an enemy advance, saves lives, and rallies his men, and all of it single-handedly. When he radioed for artillery support and was asked how close the enemy was to his position, he said, “Wait a minute and I’ll let you speak to them.” [Laughter]

Michael Smith is here, and Dick Scobee, both of the space shuttle Challenger. Their courage wasn’t wild, but thoughtful, the mature and measured courage of career professionals who took prudent risks for great reward—in their case, to advance the sum total of knowledge in the world. They’re only the latest to rest here; they join other great explorers with names like Grissom and Chaffee.

Oliver Wendell Holmes is here, the great jurist and fighter for the right. A poet searching for an image of true majesty could not rest until he seized on “Holmes dissenting in a sordid age.” Young Holmes served in the Civil War. He might have been thinking of the crosses and stars of Arlington when he wrote: “At the grave of a hero we end, not with sorrow at the inevitable loss, but with the contagion of his courage; and with a kind of desperate joy we go back to the fight.”

All of these men were different, but they shared this in common: They loved America very much. There was nothing they wouldn’t do for her. And they loved with the sureness of the young. It’s hard not to think of the young in a place like this, for it’s the young who do the fighting and dying when a peace fails and a war begins. Not far from here is the statue of the three servicemen—the three fighting boys of Vietnam. It, too, has majesty and more. Perhaps you’ve seen it—three rough boys walking together, looking ahead with a steady gaze. There’s something wounded about them, a kind of resigned toughness. But there’s an unexpected tenderness, too. At first you don’t really notice, but then you see it. The three are touching each other, as if they’re supporting each other, helping each other on.

I know that many veterans of Vietnam will gather today, some of them perhaps by the wall. And they’re still helping each other on. They were quite a group, the boys of Vietnam—boys who fought a terrible and vicious war without enough support from home, boys who were dodging bullets while we debated the efficacy of the battle. It was often our poor who fought in that war; it was the unpampered boys of the working class who picked up the rifles and went on the march. They learned not to rely on us; they learned to rely on each other. And they were special in another way: They chose to be faithful. They chose to reject the fashionable skepticism of their time. They chose to believe and answer the call of duty. They had the wild, wild courage of youth. They seized certainty from the heart of an ambivalent age; they stood for something.

And we owe them something, those boys. We owe them first a promise: That just as they did not forget their missing comrades, neither, ever, will we. And there are other promises. We must always remember that peace is a fragile thing that needs constant vigilance. We owe them a promise to look at the world with a steady gaze and, perhaps, a resigned toughness, knowing that we have adversaries in the world and challenges and the only way to meet them and maintain the peace is by staying strong.

That, of course, is the lesson of this century, a lesson learned in the Sudetenland, in Poland, in Hungary, in Czechoslovakia, in Cambodia. If we really care about peace, we must stay strong. If we really care about peace, we must, through our strength, demonstrate our unwillingness to accept an ending of the peace. We must be strong enough to create peace where it does not exist and strong enough to protect it where it does. That’s the lesson of this century and, I think, of this day. And that’s all I wanted to say. The rest of my contribution is to leave this great place to its peace, a peace it has earned.

Thank all of you, and God bless you, and have a day full of memories.

Source: Heritage Foundation and The American Presidency Project.

Thank You, Lord, For the Church!

For as long as I can remember, the local church has been a huge part of my life.  I was born into a pastor’s home, have been a pastor for over 30 years, and more importantly, have been a born again member of the body of Christ for 50 years.  Needless to say, the local church has impacted me in so many ways as I have had the joy of seeing God accomplish His redemptive purposes and plan through His people.

  • I will never forget watching a dear man under such deep conviction of sin stumble down the aisle to receive Christ in that old white church building in Henry River, NC. My dad met him halfway and had the joy of presenting the life-changing gospel to that dear brother.
  • I remember going with my dad as he preached in country churches near Mountain City, TN, and Damascus, VA.  Folks would come in groves and the buildings would be packed out.  They weren’t satisfied with a brief, feel-good, sermonette.  They came to hear the Word of God and lives were changed! The singing and preaching was a bit of heaven on earth.
  • Much of my early Bible knowledge came from my parents and good teachers in Sunday School.  Flannel graph, RBP material, and the Holy Spirit were great learning aids.
  • Then there was the opportunity to lead singing as a 12 year old in Bluefield, WV, and the choir as a 14 year old in Johnson City, TN.  Those were memorable molding days in my life.
  • In Sumter, SC, I saw souls saved, homes put back together, lives changed, heard men like Dr. J.B. Williams and Dr. Bill Hall preach the Word of God, and watched laymen give their lives to disciple others.
  • How grateful I am for the training I received at Temple/Westgate Baptist Church, Spartanburg, SC, under Dr. J. Robert Martin.  What a mighty teacher of God’s Word!  For two years while attending Bob Jones University, I worked with him, saw his passion for lost souls and his love for his congregation.  How blessed to have been also impacted during those days by one of the most-used of God soul winners of my life so far, Bill Pickel.
  • Thank the Lord for a dear group of people in Graysville, TN, who endured for three years this young, “wet-behind-the-ears” preacher.  They taught me so much, and praise the Lord for souls that were saved and for lives that were impacted by the Word of God in spite of me!

I could go on and on, but suffice it to say, the local church, the called out body of Christ, has been used to shape and mold my life, give me a place to learn and serve and to see the mighty works of God.

As we move toward Sunday and into next week, my thoughts turn toward two things.  First of all, you are the church everywhere you go if you are a true follower of Christ.  So, bring “the church” with you this Sunday in obedience to the Lord’s call of corporate worship (1 Corinthians 14:26-35; Ephesians 5:19; Hebrews 10:25).  The ingredients of corporate worship are: preaching (2 Timothy 4:2), baptism and observing the Lord’s Table (Matthew 28:19; 1 Corinthians 11:17–34), prayer (1 Timothy 2:1), reading Scripture (1 Timothy 4:13), financial giving (2 Corinthians 8–9), singing and music (Colossians 3:16).  Come Sunday ready to worship all day!  Be a participator in corporate, whole-hearted worship of our Lord instead of “what can I get out it consumerism method” of church attendance.

Secondly, next week, I will be writing about the local church concerning several issues in our day.  Some topics will include “How to Be a Godly Church Member,” “Some Bad Reasons to Leave a Church,” and “How to Talk About Your Church.” Today, I take great heart in the fact that Jesus said,  . . . upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it (Matthew 16:18).  Thank You, Lord, for the church!!

See you Sunday!

What Are You Praying For Your Children?

You want a blessing?  Come to our church and watch the precious children as they sing and quote Scripture on Sunday morning or watch them play their instruments for an offertory or see them gathered on the floor for Pastor’s Pals or watch them run eagerly to FrontLine Club.  What an opportunity we have in front of us!

Parents and grandparents, I encourage you to watch this brief video.  Then, would each of you begin to fervently pray as suggested by Dr. Rogers?  We are training and preparing the next generation.  Let’s make sure we are praying correctly.

Praying For Your Children

All of Us Ministering Together For the Gospel

Today is an exciting day for me as a pastor, father-in-law, and mentor!  This past Sunday, our church voted 98% to bring on my new son-in-law as our youth leader, and they start tonight!  Denise and I raised our daughters to leave home and serve the Lord.  We never expected that either one of them would serve alongside us in the same ministry at the same time.  Our prayer has been that by the time they were married, the Lord would give them clear direction as to where they were to serve. God in His mercy and grace has answered our heart’s cry.  How grateful I am for this opportunity.  More than anything, I am looking forward to seeing Andrew’s heart for the lost and for teens being fleshed out on a daily basis.  Then added to that scene will be Alli with her God-given music ability and her love for the teen girls matched up with her new husband to serve our awesome God!

Please join me in prayer for Andrew and Alli as they adjust to marriage and ministry.  May I encourage you to cheer them on and encourage them in these new adventures?  Get to know them.  Invite them to your home for fellowship.  Stop them at church and have prayer with them. We are all “under-rowers” in the ministry for Christ and the gospel.  Let’s team up, disciple, and make a difference for God’s glory!!  A tweet I read yesterday puts it all in perspective, “We may have a part to play in God’s grand story, but the play is not about us.”

I Want To Be a Part of That Culture!

While standing at the gas pumps yesterday, I heard a voice calling out my name.  I turned to see a new believer coming my way. She spoke and then went around to the other side of the car to talk with my wife. What caught my attention more than hearing my name was her broad smile and joyful attitude!  There is something special about new converts, new babes in Christ!  They are excited, uninhibited about their Savior, and contagious!!!  May their tribe increase!  Even as I was driving home last night listening to a sermon on the radio, I heard the preacher say, “The sign of a dead church is that it lacks evangelistic zeal. If new converts are not coming into the church, it’s only a matter of time until that church stagnates and is spiritually dead. New believers are the life-blood of the church!  We should want them.  We should pray for them.  We should embrace them. We should encourage them.”  Yes, yes, yes, and AMEN!!

Having said that, I want to share with you something I read yesterday afternoon that further ignited my heart for evangelism and new converts.  May this be true of Boones Creek Bible Church and the gospel-preaching evangelistic incubator where you are a member and serve!  Let’s want this!  Let’s pray for this!  Let’s embrace this!

I long for a church that understands that it—the local church—is the chosen and best method of evangelism. I long for a church where the Christians are so in love with Jesus that when they go about the regular time of worship, they become an image of the gospel. I long for a church that disarms with love, not entertainment, and lives out countercultural confidence in the power of the gospel. I long for a church where the greatest celebrations happen over those who share their faith, and the heroes are those who risk their reputations to evangelize.

I yearn for a culture of evangelism with brothers and sisters whose backs are up to mine in the battle, where I’m taught and I teach about what it means to share our faith; and where I see leaders in the church leading people to Jesus. I want a church where you can point to changed lives, where you can see people stand up and say, ‘When I came to this church two years ago, I didn’t know God, but now I do!’ I long to be part of a culture of evangelism like that. I bet you do, too.  (Evangelism, Mack Stiles)