A Reset For My Heart

“I’ve been attending Men’s Prayer Advance for twenty-plus years. This is my yearly reset!” These words were spoken by a pastor who understands the value of intentionally setting aside time to seek and meet with the Lord in such a gathering as Men’s Prayer Advance.

My wife knows that Men’s Prayer Advance is a non-negotiable on my yearly calendar. Having attended for many years, she knows the effect upon my life, ministry and our marriage that she strongly encourages me to go. That’s way cool!

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65 at 65!

Today marks a milestone in my life…..my 65th birthday!!

And we all say, “Where did the time go?” I mean, wasn’t it just yesterday I walked to kindergarten, graduated from high school, got married, had children, preached my first sermon, got my driver’s license, etc.?

Looking back over these years, the following and much more comes to mind.

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What’s Your Viewpoint In Ministry Conflict?

Mondays are usually a day of reflection for pastors as we rehearse the many conversations from Sunday, the “things I said” and “the things I wish I had said” in the message, that empty pew that once was a faithful church member, the forgotten prayer request, that miscommunication, feeling like a failure, the church conflict that continues on, etc.

At times like these, you need encouragement to keep on keeping on. If you haven’t already, read the previous posts and today ponder #4.

1. You will make it.

2.  Bask in the presence of God

3.  You are not alone.

4. Let it drive you to your knees.

Difficult times in ministry is the clarion call for you to have a correct view of your God. Trouble can quickly lead you to be despairing, fearful, hurt, doubting, and wanting to flee. Hard times can tempt you to become idolatrous as you fix your heart on the people, circumstances, misunderstandings, conflicts, etc.

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Sharing In Suffering

When trouble comes in ministry, and it will, you will feel all alone, even in the midst of many people as well as in the quietness of your study. In those moments, hours, days, will you consider the previous two posts and key in on today’s word of encouragement?

1. You will make it.

2.  Bask in the presence of God

3. You are not alone.

For all of us whom God has privileged to serve in His ministry, we all have experienced difficult days, are in a hard time, or will be in the future. 

Consider the company you keep:

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A VERY Different Monday

This is a Monday that I have not experienced in 40 years. Except for a brief few months, God has enabled me to be a lead pastor shepherding His flock in two states, Tennessee and Indiana.

First of all, let me say that I am NOT retiring, just changing roles at Boones Creek Bible Church and moving into a new ministry that Denise and I have had on our hearts for a long time. 

Today, Andrew Isbell is the lead pastor, and I’m the associate pastor. Also, one of the “D’s” in D & D Ministries.

How did it happen?

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Take It All In When Ministry is Hard

Yes, there are times when ministry is difficult, perplexing, overwhelming, stressful, load-bearing, harsh, and/or near-to-the-breaking-point! May I encourage you?

1. You will make it.

2. Bask in the presence of God.

To bask in something is to “take it all in, to receive its warmth, or bathe in its goodness” (Oxford Languages). Liza Jane, the cat that inhabited our home for many years, knew what it was to bask in the sunshine. Being an indoor cat, she often would begin her day in the east bedroom of our home curled up “receiving the warmth” of the sun. By afternoon, she was taking her 16th nap stretched out in the southwest bedroom “bathing in the goodness” of the sun.

Difficult times in ministry, if we permit it, can make us cold and bitter to the Lord, our wife, our children, our friends, and especially toward the congregation. Before hard times come, and they will, we should be know well what it means to bask in the presence of God, the abiding life in Christ (John 15:1-11).

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Truths To Encourage When Ministry Is Hard

Even though a new year has begun and resolutions have been made, you are either in a hard season of ministry, coming out of one, or on the verge of going into one. Truth is, ministry at times is hard, painful, difficult, and wearisome. Need some words of encouragement?

1. You will make it.

Yes, there are times when you wonder if you can even take the next step, preach another sermon, pray, sing, parent, lead, work, etc. You are so tempted to quit; turn in your resignation; head into the pit of despondency. Look over your shoulder. By the mercy, goodness and grace of God you have come this far.

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Seven Considerations for Contentment in Ministry

Pastor friend, what would it take for you to be really happy and satisfied where you currently serve?

If you had it, would you still be happy and satisfied in a few days ? Next week? Next month? In a year?

For the most part, we pastors are never satisfied. Before I go any further, I understand the desire to see more souls saved and discipled for the glory of God. What I’m talking about is a lack of contentment in ministry that is more centered on circumstances, goals, etc. Such as . . .

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Three Reasons Why Small Groups Are Awesome!

Every Wednesday and Thursday nights, small groups gather in local homes to fulfill the mission statement of our church, “To glorify God by helping people move toward Christ.”

What are the benefits and blessings of these small groups?

1. Growing and producing leaders in the church.

Each small group have men who lead and are being trained to lead through monthly meetings. The goal is to reproduce each group, and that begins with leadership training. This year, these men have studied and discussed a book on text-driven preaching. They will have an opportunity to put into practice what they have learned by preaching on Sunday nights in 2024. Wow!

2. Children learning to pray.

One of the best facets of small group is passionate, expectant prayer. Some of our groups have children attending, and we have seen the impact upon them by their listening to the adults pray. The children are praying in the small group gatherings, and it has spilled over into our Sunday night corporate prayer meetings. One group has a Bible study for the kids during the adults’ study, but the children are always included in prayer meeting. They hear the adults share concerns, praises, and answers to prayer. They are developing a burden for the lost as they hear others crying out for the salvation of their loved ones, friends and neighbors. Wow!

3. Honest, transparent living before others in the group.

As the group grows in the grace and knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ (1 Peter 3:18), as well as the fulfillment of the biblical one another’s, there is a level of transparency and honesty that really doesn’t happen on Sunday mornings in the pew. The exhortation and encouragement that comes is spiritually healthy and builds strong, biblical community that develops over time. How wonderful to hear someone share their hurts, burdens, desires, sins, and then receive a compassionate response grounded in the Word for the glory of God! Wow!

Since COVID and largely in part because of the beneficial changes that came from that most interesting time, small groups have abundantly aided the health of our church! These gatherings are a highlight of each week. To God is all glory! Wow!

*Wednesday WOW is written to remind us, especially pastors, that our transcendent, omnipotent, loving, sovereign God is working today in our lives in thousands of ways. The WOW is God, not the size of the work! How have you seen Him at work in your life today?