A VERY Different Monday

This is a Monday that I have not experienced in 40 years. Except for a brief few months, God has enabled me to be a lead pastor shepherding His flock in two states, Tennessee and Indiana.

First of all, let me say that I am NOT retiring, just changing roles at Boones Creek Bible Church and moving into a new ministry that Denise and I have had on our hearts for a long time. 

Today, Andrew Isbell is the lead pastor, and I’m the associate pastor. Also, one of the “D’s” in D & D Ministries.

How did it happen?

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Take It All In When Ministry is Hard

Yes, there are times when ministry is difficult, perplexing, overwhelming, stressful, load-bearing, harsh, and/or near-to-the-breaking-point! May I encourage you?

1. You will make it.

2. Bask in the presence of God.

To bask in something is to “take it all in, to receive its warmth, or bathe in its goodness” (Oxford Languages). Liza Jane, the cat that inhabited our home for many years, knew what it was to bask in the sunshine. Being an indoor cat, she often would begin her day in the east bedroom of our home curled up “receiving the warmth” of the sun. By afternoon, she was taking her 16th nap stretched out in the southwest bedroom “bathing in the goodness” of the sun.

Difficult times in ministry, if we permit it, can make us cold and bitter to the Lord, our wife, our children, our friends, and especially toward the congregation. Before hard times come, and they will, we should be know well what it means to bask in the presence of God, the abiding life in Christ (John 15:1-11).

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Truths To Encourage When Ministry Is Hard

Even though a new year has begun and resolutions have been made, you are either in a hard season of ministry, coming out of one, or on the verge of going into one. Truth is, ministry at times is hard, painful, difficult, and wearisome. Need some words of encouragement?

1. You will make it.

Yes, there are times when you wonder if you can even take the next step, preach another sermon, pray, sing, parent, lead, work, etc. You are so tempted to quit; turn in your resignation; head into the pit of despondency. Look over your shoulder. By the mercy, goodness and grace of God you have come this far.

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Seven Considerations for Contentment in Ministry

Pastor friend, what would it take for you to be really happy and satisfied where you currently serve?

If you had it, would you still be happy and satisfied in a few days ? Next week? Next month? In a year?

For the most part, we pastors are never satisfied. Before I go any further, I understand the desire to see more souls saved and discipled for the glory of God. What I’m talking about is a lack of contentment in ministry that is more centered on circumstances, goals, etc. Such as . . .

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I Need Help

This is often one of the most difficult statements for a pastor to declare.

Perhaps he is . . .

  • Feeling overrun with responsibilities.
  • Navigating through a personal trial.
  • Sensing the weight of underachievement.
  • Under financial strain.
  • In bondage to unconfessed sin.
  • Bi-vocational and trying to do both well.
  • Struggling through an unhealthy marriage.
  • Overwhelmed by a wayward child scenario.
  • Lonely in the ministry.

Pastor, does this describe you?

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Wednesday Wow: She’s Beautiful!

I noticed her beauty as soon as I walked through the doors. There she was in her attractive, genuine regalia. Oh, there are times she doesn’t look so good, but overall, she is and was absolutely radiant! And this was one of those many times!

Who?

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Front or Back Seat?

Monday’s Ministry Encouragement: Written to encourage you, my friend in ministry, to be refreshed and renewed as we live for Christ and look toward the Bema.

“57% of pastors say their spiritual formation takes a back seat.” (Standing Stone Ministry)

Pastor friend, how do you respond to that statement?

After giving out the Word yesterday and ministering to the needs of many last week, how are you personally growing in Christ? How is Christ being “formed in you”?

My little children, for whom I labor in birth again until Christ is formed in you (Galatians 4:19).

At the point of salvation, Christ comes to dwell in the believer (John 14:20; 17:23; Galatians 2:20; Colossians 1:27). Christ is “formed in us” as the Holy Spirit, as Ron Lynch says, “knocks out of us what doesn’t look like Christ.” This is an ongoing process of daily surrender and learning Christ. But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as by the Spirit of the Lord (2 Corinthians 3:18). But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ (2 Peter 3:18).

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It’s Well Worth the Effort!

As we sang, my mind went to High Rocks!

High Rocks is located 2.0 miles south of Spivey Gap on the Appalachian Trail near Burnsville, NC. AllTrails app says it well, “Take a series of switchbacks leading through a steep section of trail up to the summit of High Rocks. While the beginning may be challenging, the views from the top of High Rocks are well worth the effort.”

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Overcoming Cynicism In Ministry

Monday’s Ministry Encouragement: Written to encourage you, my friend in ministry, to be refreshed and renewed as we live for Christ and look toward the Bema.

“Well, what’s the use in trying to love this congregation! They’ll probably just turn on me.”

“I’m not going to open myself up being hurt again.”

“I knew that’s how they would respond!”

All of these and more are statements from a heart that has grown cynical in the ministry.

To be cynical is to be “contemptuously distrustful of human nature and motives; based on or reflecting a belief that human conduct is motivated primarily by self-interest” (Merriam-Webster).

“Cynicism among Christians appears as a collection of negative attitudes and expectations. Those attitudes may be directed toward ourselves or others, the church, conversions, gospel progress, growth in sanctification, and even toward God himself.” (Peter Adams)

Cynicism in ministry is dangerous ground.

  • A cynical pastor has lost touch with the reality of life in Christ.
  • A cynical pastor avoids being with people; is withdrawn.
  • A cynical pastor has forgotten the sovereignty of God and the love of God.
  • A cynical pastor has been consumed with his hurts.
  • A cynical pastor thinks God has forsaken him.
  • A cynical pastor’s time in the Word has become mundane and mechanical.
  • A cynical pastor has a prayer life rather than a life of prayer.

Do any or all of the above describe you, pastor/missionary friend?

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