“Enjoying the Pleasures; Avoiding the Potholes”
On the scenic route through the mountains, especially the Blue Ridge Parkway, you will see many folks riding their bikes. These guys and gals are fit and trim. They are dressed for action and prepared for the long haul.
I will probably get myself in trouble here, but husbands, are you still your wife’s prince, her knight in shining armor?
Have you looked at any of your wedding pictures lately? Who are those people?
At our wedding I wore a white tux with tails, or as Jerry Clower would have called it, “a claw-hammer tail coat.” Standing 6’2” and weighing 185 pounds, I looked like a Good Humor Ice Cream salesmen. My sweet wife . . . 4’9” and weighed under 100 pounds.
The years went by and my wife began to see more and more of me. Ugh! Not good. Eventually almost 100 pounds of me! She on the other hand has given birth to three children and today is still under a 100 pounds.
Men, once we get our gal, why do we let ourselves deteriorate physically? Do we not respect her and the Lord enough to take care of our bodies?
Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 6:19-20, Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body, and in 9:27, But I discipline my body and keep it under control. And then John in 3 John 2, Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul. Then in 1 Timothy 4:8, Paul once again exhorts us, For while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come.
Husbands, you need to be your wife’s protection, pillow and partner (Blog Posts #4 -#9), but also her prince!
In this age of fast food, video games, busyness of life and “feeding” our emotions, it is so easy to get lazy, overweight, and out-of-shape. It takes discipline, planning, and sweat to exercise yourself unto godliness and good health. Your testimony and your wife are worth it!
Husbands, begin to exercise and eat right. Deny yourself. Join up with your wife on a plan to work together to get healthy, eat healthy and stay heathy. Be honest with each other and encourage each other for your good and God’s glory!
Husbands, dress for your wife. When you are home, don’t look like a bum. Your wife is there and your kids. You can be casual without looking like you just stepped out of a dirty laundry basket.
Yes, the inner man must be renewed day-by-day, but our outward man is a reflection of what’s going on in our heart.
Something that I have appreciated about my wife from the very beginning is that she wants to look good for me. She has said many times, “I do not dress for me but for you.” I should reciprocate. She has eyes, too. She is my princess.
Also, men, in being a prince to your wife, have good manners at the dinner table (1 Corinthians 10:31). You should be the last to be served and the first to want to serve. You should seat your wife at the table. Put away your cell phones and talk to each other. You take the lead in prayer or calling on someone to pray; on having family devotions at the table if that is a good time for you.
Last of all, men, in being your wife’s prince, be polite. Read Ruth 2 and take note of how polite and kind Boaz was to Ruth. She was impressed by his gracious actions.
A prince draws his wife to himself by his kind words and deeds. Speak well of your wife in public, tell her how much she means to you, let her know that you are paying attention to her, and be sure to often speak the words “I love you.”
Recently, I have added biking to my running routine. No, I am not planning on riding the Blue Ridge Parkway for any great distance, but I am trying to do what I have encouraged you to do, men. It’s for God’s glory and for my wife.
We are in it for the long haul.
From A Pastor's Heart 