Marriage By Design

Yesterday, while seated around the lunch table with three other men, we read chapter six of Richard Phillips’ book, Masculine Mandate.  This is a discipleship practice that occurs approximately three times-a-month in a local restaurant as we gather to read, share, and pray. Chapter six’s title was “God’s Astonishing Design for Marriage.”  By the time we finished reading the chapter out loud, I believe each man was ready to ditch his afternoon plans/responsibilities and “head for the house” to be with his beloved!!

To say that there is an attack upon marriage is an understatement.  Truth is marriage has been under attack since the Garden of Eden.  In recent months, we have watched the biblical view of marriage be redefined in government, churches, homes, schools, and families.  Today, we as believers must live out and stand for what God defines as marriage.  Not what secular society says about marriage or even some who would say they are born again.  Just this week, Christian band, Jars of Clay front-man, David Haseltine tweeted, “Not meaning to stir things up BUT… Is there a non-speculative or non ‘slippery slope’ reason why gays shouldn’t marry? I don’t hear one.”  I must quickly say that I know several reasons why, and they are outlined in the following blog post that answers the question, What is marriage according to the Bible?

Next week, I will be sharing five blog posts on the subject, “How To Make Sure Your Marriage Ends in Divorce.”  In the meantime, be sure to take heed to the final paragraph of today’s blog post link. By the way, I’m sure none of us men were disappointed when it came time to “head for the house!!!”

See you next Monday!

Discipleship in Action

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On Monday, April 7, 2014, three people in the same car were involved in two auto accidents at 5:30 a.m. while driving north on Interstate 81 near Morristown, TN.  According to the Tennessee Highway Patrol, their vehicle stalled due to the first accident and was sitting crossways in the northbound lane.  A tanker truck then slammed into the vehicle on the driver’s side. Two were killed and one was severely injured.  The lone survivor, Omar (24 years old), was transported to one of our local hospitals.

We have a dear Hispanic couple that attends our church, and they raise chickens to sell along with their eggs.  While making a delivery to a local Amish store, they saw a sign requesting help for Omar, the lone survivor.  Concepcion said to her husband Daniel, “We must go see him!  He needs someone who can speak Spanish to him.”  That afternoon they made their initial visit. The room was full of people, but they had the opportunity to share the gospel.  Due to Omar facial injuries, he is not able to eat but certain foods.  For the past several days, Concepcion has been taking him chicken soup and feeding him, showing the love of Christ. Monday of this week, Daniel had the opportunity to lead Omar to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ!!  Not only that, but they have had further opportunities to share Christ with Omar’s friends.  As they continue to visit Omar, they have been teaching him to observe all that I have commanded you (Matthew 28:20).  This, my friend, is true discipleship in action!

This couple has not stopped with Omar.  Having made a recent purchase of a new car, they have invited their salesman to their home for a meal to begin The Exchange Four-Week Bible Study.  The goal is to present the gospel and share Jesus without fear!  That is true discipleship in action!

Has the Lord brought an “Omar” across your path this week?  Who needs you to bring them “a bowl of chicken soup”?  Who lives next door to you?  Have you ever had them to your home for a meal?  What about that salesman that you do business with on a frequent business?  Have you ever confronted him with the claims of Christ?  Who in your family needs to hear your testimony?

Being & Doing Matthew 28:18-20

What a special blessing to see true discipleship in action at BCBC this past Sunday.  Believe me, it has taken much prayer, patience, and teaching to get to the place we are today.  May I be quick to add that we still have a long way to go, but we are making good progress.  I have never been more convinced that the main function of the local church is discipleship which is the whole commandment given in Matthew 28:18-20.

How grateful I am for the influence of a mentor many years ago in Indiana, Randy Patten, who then was the State Representative of the Indiana General Association of Regular Baptist Churches.  Periodically, he would gather up a group of young pastors and take them to a camp for two-to-three days in western Indiana.  There we learned the importance and dynamics of discipleship, small groups, prayer and transparent honesty before God and men.  There have been many others who have played a role in the confirmation in my heart of discipleship being the heartbeat of the local church.

Two years ago this coming August, the Lord allowed me to undergo surgery for a detached retina.  After surgery, I had to lie on my left side for seven days during which the Lord met with me in some very special ways. I cried out to the Lord for clear direction for BCBC, and He heard my plea.  Everything I read, every sermon I listened to, and many songs I heard all pointed to discipleship.  The message from God was so clear.  The time had come to lead BCBC to be a total Christ-exalting discipleship ministry.  In other words, every ministry at BCBC must have as its primary goal, discipleship.  As I said earlier, we have not arrived, but we are making progress.  Certainly, it has not come without its share of opposition, misapplications, apathy and trials.  Our church motto has become, “Disciples: that’s who are.  Discipleship:  that’s what we do.”  An expanded version of that statement is:  “A disciple is an obedient, faithful, growing, loving Christian who lets the Word flow into and through his life in making and training and maturing other disciple-makers.”

So back to last Sunday, we saw on that day so many people intentionally engaged in people’s lives to prepare the soil for discipleship, continue the work of discipleship, and/or see the fruits of discipleship.  Praise the Lord, in particular, for the many involved in the lives of three individuals baptized on Easter.  Two were adults who had recently received Christ.  Looking back, these two were the results of people inviting, praying, sharing the Word, answering their questions, going and intentionally discipling them, because that’s what disciples do.  Then, at the end of the Sunday morning service, came the fulfillment of Matthew 28:19, Go and make disciples, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the son, and of the Holy Ghost.  To hear their salvation testimonies and see them take the step of identification and obedience through baptism was a joy-filled occasion.  Now, we are watching the continuation of Matthew 28:20, Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you, as these new believers are being disciple with the goal of seeing them disciple someone in the future!!

Are you a born again member of a local church?  Who have you shared the gospel with this week (and that doesn’t mean asking them where they go to church, but engaging them with Scripture)?  Who are you discipling?  What’s their name?  When and where do you meet?  Are you obedient to Matthew 28:18-20?  Not every church can have a bus ministry, a Christian school, a day-care, a Sunday School, a teen ministry, a children’s program and/or various other ministries, but every church can and should be involved in true, biblical discipleship!  The call from Christ is one of utmost authority with His guaranteed presence to enable and empower (Matthew 28:18, 20).

Wearing Corduroys

Living for Christ is like wearing corduroy pants.  Every time you take a step forward, you create friction.  Do you hear the swish, swish, swish, swish?  As you study the Word, you see many who were moving forward for God and faced opposition.  Some examples of those who faced opposition and kept pressing forward are:

  • Nehemiah — Sanballet and Tobiah (Nehemiah 2:19; 4:1-23)
  • Moses – Pharoah and the children of Israel
  • Joseph – his brothers (Genesis 37:8-36) and Potiphar’s wife (Genesis 39)
  • David – King Saul
  • Peter and John – the Sadducees, the Sanhedrin (Acts 4)
  • Peter – King Herod (Acts 12)
  • Paul – Satan (Acts 13:6-13), Demetrius (Acts 19:23-41)
  • Jesus – Peter (Matthew 16:21-23); Pharisees (Matthew 22:15); Jewish authorities (Matthew 26:1-5); the crowd (Matthew 27:15-25)

The key to facing opposition is to follow Hebrews 12:1-3, Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience (endurance) the race that is set before us, Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God. For consider him that endured such contradiction of sinners against himself, lest ye be wearied and faint in your minds.

Fix your eyes on Christ; keep fixing your eyes on Christ.  There is a finish line and a prize at the end.  That prize is Christ.  Keep on keeping on, brother.  Keep on keeping on, sister.  Endure.  God’s promises and presence is secure!

Do you hear the swishing sound?

Passive or Active Men

Recently I heard someone state that if Satan cannot destroy a man morally, he will do all he can to make him a passive man.  There is a crying need for men today to rise up and be the intentional spiritual leaders in their marriages, with their families, at church and at work.  Men need to lead from Scripture, from the heart, with courage, with a plan, and with zeal in doing so.  The following post addresses this issue and gives some practical helps for men to overcome passivity.

Overcoming Passivity

Walking With Christ This Week – Friday

Once again, we continue our journey this week with Christ to the cross having the Scriptures and the Holy Spirit as our perfect guide.

Jesus is betrayed and arrested (Matthew 26:47-56; Mark 14:43-52; Luke 22:47-53; John 18:1-11)

  • Could have occurred after midnight, early on Friday morning

Jewish Trial, Phase 1: Jesus has a hearing before Annas [former high priest and Caiaphas’s father-in-law] (John 18:13-14, 19-24)

Jewish Trial, Phase 2: Jesus stands trial before Caiaphas and part of the Sanhedrin (Matthew 26:57-68; Mark 14:53-65)

Peter denies Jesus (Matthew 26:69-75; Mark 14:66-72; Luke 22:55-62; John 18:15-18, 25-27)

Jewish Trial, Phase 3: Final consultation before the full Sanhedrin; sent to Pilate (Matthew 27:1-2; Mark 15:1; Luke 22:66-71)
Judas hangs himself (Matthew 27:3-10)

 

6 a.m.

  • Roman Trial Phase 1: Jesus’ first appearance before Pontius Pilate; sent to Herod Antipas (Matthew 27:11-14; Mark 15:2-5; Luke 23:1-7)

7 a.m.

  • Roman Trial Phase 2: Jesus appears before Herod Antipas; sent back to Pontius Pilate (Luke 23:6-12)
  • Roman Trial Phase 3: Jesus’ second appearance before Pilate; sentenced to die (Matthew 27:15-26; Mark 15:6-15; Luke 23:13-25; John 18:28-19:16)

8 a.m.

  • Jesus is led away to Calvary (Matthew 27:32-34; Mark 15:21-24; Luke 23:26-31; John 19:16-17)

The Crucifixion

9 a.m. – “The Third Hour”

  • Jesus is crucified on the cross(Mark 15:25; Luke 23:34)
  • The soldiers cast lots for Jesus’ clothing  (Mark 15:24)

10 a.m.

  • Jesus is insulted and mocked (Matthew 27:39-40; Mark 15:31; Luke 23:36-37, 39)

11 a.m.

  • Jesus and the criminal (Luke 23:40-43)
  • Jesus speaks to Mary and John (John 19:26-27)

Noon – “The Sixth Hour”

  • Darkness covers the land (Mark 15:33)

1 p.m.

  • Jesus cries out to the Father (Matthew 27:46)
  • Jesus is thirsty (John 19:28-29)

2 p.m.

  • “It is finished” (John 19:30a; Luke 23:46)

3 p.m. – “The Ninth Hour”

Events Following Jesus’ Death

  • The earthquake (Matthew 27:51-52)
  • The centurion (Matthew 27:54; Mark 15:38; Luke 23:47)
  • The soldiers break the thieves’ legs (John 19:31-33)
  • The soldier pierces Jesus’ side (John 19:34)
  • Jesus is laid in the tomb (Matthew 27:57-61; Mark 15:42-47; Luke 23:50-56; John 19:38-42)

Walking With Christ This Week – Thursday

Once again, we continue our journey this week with Christ to the cross having the Scriptures and the Holy Spirit as our perfect guide.

Preparation for the Passover (Matthew 26:17-19; Mark 14:12-16; Luke 22:7-13)

The Passover Meal, information about the impeding betrayal, and institution of the Lord’s Supper (Mathew 26:20-29; Mark 14:17-23; Luke 22:14-30)

Jesus washes the disciples’ feet and delivers the Upper Room Discourse (John 13:1-17:26)

After singing a hymn (Psalms 113-118), Jesus and His disciples go to the Mount of Olives (Matthew 26:30; Mark 14:26; Luke 22:39)

Jesus foretells Peter’s denials (Matthew 26:31-35; Mark 14:26-31; Luke 22:31-34; John 13:31-38)

Jesus warns His disciples of coming conflict (Luke 22:35-38)

Jesus and His disciples go to the Garden of Gethsemane where Jesus experiences great agony in prayer (Matthew 26:36-46; Mark 14:32-42; Luke 22:39-46; John 18:1)

Walking With Christ This Week – Wednesday

This morning, we continue our journey with Christ to the cross having the Scriptures and the Holy Spirit as our perfect guide.

Jesus continues to teach in the Temple by day and at the Mount of Olives in the evening (Luke 21:37-38)

The plot to kill Jesus by the religious crowd (Matt. 26:3-5; Mark 14:1-2; Luke 22:1-2)

Judas agrees to betray Jesus (Matthew 26:14-16; Mark 14:10-11; Luke 22:3-6)

Walking With Christ This Week

Since I encouraged you yesterday to enter into the classroom each day with Christ, let’s walk with Him the rest of this week to Calvary and the tomb.  Today’s Scripture readings describe Tuesday’s events.

Jesus and His disciples return to Jerusalem after being in Bethany; the barren fig tree

Matthew 21:20-22; Mark 11:20-21

Jesus’ authority is challenged by the Jewish leaders in Jerusalem

Matthew 21:23-23:39; Mark 11:27–12:44; Luke 20:1–21:4

Jesus’ disciples wonder at the Temple; Jesus delivers the Olivet Discourse on their return to Bethany from Jerusalem

Matthew 24:1 – 25:46; Mark 13:1-37; Luke 21:5-36

Time for Class

One of the rich grace blessings of being a child of God is the 24/7 invitation from Christ to enter into the “inner circle,” the classroom of intimate discipleship with Christ.  No need to wish you could’ve been Peter, James, John, or any of the other twelve seated with Jesus beside the Sea of Galilee.  Jesus says, Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls (Matthew 11:28-29).  When you enter His classroom at His continual invitation, the Instructor/Trainer/Teacher/Discipler  is Christ Himself, and the subject is Christ.  He takes you just as you are, tired, weary, heavy laden with sin, guilt, questions, despair, failures, doubts, confusion, misunderstandings, and yokes up with you because He, the compassionate, forgiving, merciful One died and rose from the tomb to enjoy fellowship with you, to give you rest, and to be your advocate and friend.  Initially, He gives you rest from a life of sin as He brings you to the Father in salvation.  Then as He teaches you, He gives rest from the spiritual battles, rest from the quandary of thoughts in your mind as well as rest from the cares of life.  Bottom line is, for all the questions of life, the answer is Christ.  And to think, He invites you to come to Him. Then as you enter the classroom, especially the first thing each morning, and though out the day, come with the following desire from your heart and on your lips: Teach me thy way, O Lord; I will walk in thy truth: unite my heart to fear thy name (Psalm 86:11).

It’s time for class!  We have the absolute best Teacher, the absolute best curriculum, the absolute best applications for life, and the joy of always being seated next to the Teacher!  Pull up a chair this morning; listen, learn and live.  Oh, by the way, don’t forget to take notes!