“What a blessing to have friends you can ask to pray for a situation, and they don’t ask questions.”
Have you ever heard the tag line, “Enquiring minds want to know”? This line was made famous many years by the tabloid National Enquirer, sadly located in your supermarket checkout line.
National Enquirer has made millions on man’s insatiable desire to know the stuff of somebody else’s life, even if it is a lie.
That same National Enquirer search can be found among well-intentioned people who “pray.” Have you ever heard someone say, “I just found out (circumstance) about (name). I’m only sharing this so you can pray about it.” The bait has been thrown out, and wham! We take it hook-line-and-sinker! Do we really want to know so we can genuinely intercede or do we just want the National Enquirer version?
Or, someone is going through a rough time in their life, and they ask you to pray for them. To further “enquire” may lead you into an area of their life they are not comfortable sharing. It puts them on the spot and causes them to perhaps not ask for prayer support in the future.
Have you ever considered that you really do not need to know all the details? God already knows. What else matters? Prayer for others gives you the opportunity to mention their name before the Throne of Grace, to pray Scripture for them, to pray for the need even if you do not know the details, and to bear one another’s burden (Galatians 6:1). May I remind us that the Holy Spirit even prays for us when we don’t know what to pray (Romans 8:26).
How much more content our lives would be if we hungered for what God wants to say to us every day from His Word rather than the tidbits of other’s lives. James 1:26 reminds us, If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person’s religion is worthless.
Yes, “enquiring minds want to know,” but settled hearts are satisfied to just mention your name to our omniscient Heavenly Father.